Things. We have way too many.
I have things in Australia and things in the UK.
When Tony and I moved in together, he had all his things and I had all of mine, doubling our “thing” count. I also found out that he too had some things in Australia as well as in the UK (quadrupling our thing count).
In order to fit all our things into a small 1 br flat, we threw away a lot, gave a lot to charity, gave some away to friends and still to this day, we are inundated with an abundance of things.
Just by receiving gifts or purchasing them and living in 2 different countries, I now have a minimum of 2 of everything.
I’ve sent bags and bags of clothes to the charity bins myself in London and I did the same in Australia.
There were things I gave away through PIFfing (Pay It Forward), some I got charities to come and pick up from me and some individuals came to pick things up for free. It included large furniture, near-new mattresses, kitchen items, books, electronics and all sorts. Some I sold.
I actually did this in Australia as well as in the UK!!
But it seems no matter how much I let go of, I didn’t make a dent in my overcrowded cupboard and drawer space.
You know I read her book a couple of years ago?
I only managed to do it with clothes, shoes, bags and jewellery and you know what happened? I GOT MORE!!!!!! I didn’t even buy them. It was all given to me.
The universe abhors a vacuum.
I learned that if you want anything, you must first create a vacuum / a space for it and because the universe abhors a vacuum, that thing you want and created space for, will fill that space.
This belief has worked so much for me that cleaning out my cupboards created a vacuum. The problem is, I never thought of what I wanted to fill the space so now, I just have more of what I got rid of, sitting where the old things used to be.
The cupboards I Konmaried (I can’t believe I used that as a verb) are still neat, just really, REALLY squishy.
I had a dream a couple of nights ago where I visited a neighbourhood where people hung all their unused jackets, bags and toys outside of their house like decoration (imagine a 3D version of a ginger bread house). I wondered why when people had 2-3 story houses, they hung things outside and was told that they did this because their houses were too small to store all their things.
It made sense to them but with each house I went past, I just repeated the same questions, “Why do they have so much stuff? Do they even need it all?”
And so now I ask myself, why do we have so many things?
I’ve recently just taken another bag of clothes to charity and some plant pots but our home is still full.
It seems, it is time for me to do some Konmari-ing once again and this time, I think I should do it properly. ie just like the poster says, KONMARI ALL THE THINGS.
Now THIS is going to be interesting!!